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Estate Planning · Texas

The Most Important Estate Document You Own Might Be a Facebook Setting

Texas law puts platform settings above your will. A legacy contact you set casually in 2019 outranks a document your attorney drafted last month.

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Dev Gaymes · Licensed Insurance Advisor
September 8, 2026 · 11 min read · Last reviewed September 2026 by Dev Gaymes
A note before you read this.I am Dev Gaymes, a licensed insurance broker, not an attorney. This runs through Texas statute and estate document drafting, neither of which I practice. I am writing it because the same failure mode that loses a family access to a phone also loses them life insurance policies they never knew existed. Anything involving your will, trust or power of attorney belongs with a Texas estate attorney.

Most estate planning assumes the things you own are physical, or at least held somewhere with a phone number you can call. Increasingly they are not. And Texas law resolves the conflict in a way almost nobody expects: a setting inside an app can override the will your attorney drafted.

The hierarchy that decides everything

Texas adopted the Revised Uniform Fiduciary Access to Digital Assets Act in 2017, codified at Texas Estates Code Chapter 2001. Forty-nine states and the District of Columbia have adopted a version of it; Louisiana has not.

It sets a three-tier order of priority, and the order is the whole story:

PriorityWhat controlsExample
1. FirstThe platform’s own online toolApple Legacy Contact, Google Inactive Account Manager, Facebook legacy contact
2. SecondYour will, trust or power of attorneyOnly if no platform tool was used
3. LastThe platform’s terms of serviceWhich usually means restriction or deletion

General description of the RUFADAA priority framework as adopted in Texas. Statutes and platform policies change; confirm with a Texas estate attorney.

Read that first row again. A legacy contact you designated casually in 2019 and forgot about outranks a will your attorney drafted last month. That is not a drafting error, it is how the statute is built, on the theory that the most recent direct expression of your intent should win. It means your platform settings deserve the same seriousness as your estate documents, and almost nobody treats them that way.

What your executor gets without the right language

Here is a detail that surprises attorneys, let alone families. Even where a will authorises access to digital assets, without specific language covering the content of electronic communications a fiduciary may only obtain catalogue information: sender, date, subject line. Not the messages themselves.

The distinction matters enormously. A list of who emailed you is not the same as being able to read the email confirming where a policy is held.

The platform tools, and what each actually allows

PlatformToolWhat it does
AppleLegacy ContactAccess to photos, messages, notes and files. Without it, expect to need a court order.
GoogleInactive Account ManagerShares selected data after a set period of inactivity. Does not hand over login credentials.
Facebook / InstagramLegacy ContactCan pin a post, update photos and request deletion. Cannot read private messages or remove past posts or friends.
MicrosoftNo equivalentCourt order generally required for content.
DropboxNo equivalentRequires a US court order establishing intent and authority.

Commonly documented platform behaviour as of the review date. Policies change frequently; verify current settings directly with each provider.

The half-hour that does the most work. Setting up Apple Legacy Contact, Google Inactive Account Manager and Facebook legacy contact takes under thirty minutes combined, costs nothing, and sits at the top of the legal hierarchy. No attorney required. If you do nothing else on this page, do those three.

Crypto is the one with no recovery

Every other category has a path, however slow. Cryptocurrency does not.

There is no bank to call, no password reset, no customer service line, no recovery process. If nobody has the private key, the funds are permanently gone. A court order accomplishes nothing, because there is no custodian to serve it on. Hardware wallets hold keys on a physical device that someone has to find and be able to open.

If you hold crypto, the seed phrase location and access instructions need to exist somewhere your executor can reach. That is a security problem and an estate problem at once, and it is worth solving deliberately rather than hoping.

Where this touches life insurance directly

This is the part I actually have standing to talk about, and it is the reason I wrote the page.

Paperless statements have made policies harder to find. A generation ago a policy meant an envelope in a filing cabinet. Now it means an email address the family cannot access, a portal login nobody has, and an autopay draft on a card that gets cancelled when the account closes.

  • A policy nobody knows about does not get claimed. Insurers do run death-master-file matching, but it is imperfect, particularly on older policies with outdated addresses.
  • Autopay from a closed account causes lapses. A policy sitting in its grace period when someone dies creates a genuinely avoidable dispute.
  • Claim documents live in email. Policy numbers, carrier correspondence and beneficiary confirmations are frequently only in an inbox nobody can open.
  • Beneficiary designations work the same way. Like a platform legacy contact, a beneficiary form overrides your will, and most people have not checked theirs in years.
If you think a relative had a policy nobody can find: There are free searches worth running before assuming it does not exist. The NAIC Life Policy Locator and state unclaimed property databases find more than people expect.

What to actually do, in order

  1. Set the three platform tools: Apple, Google, Facebook. Thirty minutes, free, and legally they outrank everything else.
  2. Inventory your accounts. Email, banking, brokerage, insurance portals, cloud storage, subscriptions, domains, loyalty programs, crypto. A list of where things are, not a list of passwords.
  3. Use a password manager with an emergency access feature and name someone. Never put passwords in your will, because a will becomes a public record in probate.
  4. Tell your executor the list exists and where to find it. A perfect inventory nobody knows about is no inventory.
  5. Have your attorney add digital asset provisions to your will, trust and power of attorney, including explicit authority over the content of electronic communications rather than just the accounts.
  6. Handle crypto separately and deliberately. Seed phrase location, wallet type, access instructions.
  7. Add your insurance to the inventory: carrier, policy number, and where statements are delivered. That single line saves a family weeks.
  8. Review annually. Platform tools change, accounts multiply, and a legacy contact you named years ago may no longer be the right person.
Where I fit
I am not an attorney and I do not draft documents. What I can do is the insurance layer: tell you what coverage exists, confirm a policy is in force and premiums are being paid from an account that will not close, verify who is named as beneficiary, and make sure that information sits somewhere your family can reach it. That review costs nothing, and on this topic it frequently surfaces a policy nobody had thought about in a decade.
Related: the full planning sequence, what a beneficiary has to do to claim, and how to search for a policy you cannot find.

Frequently Asked Questions

Does Texas law let my executor access my online accounts?

Only if you have set it up correctly. Texas adopted the Revised Uniform Fiduciary Access to Digital Assets Act in 2017 under Texas Estates Code Chapter 2001. It gives executors, trustees and agents legal authority over digital assets, but that authority depends on a three-tier priority order: a platform's own online tool comes first, your will or trust comes second, and the platform's terms of service come last. Without express permission through one of the first two, providers can and do deny access even to a spouse.

Does a Facebook legacy contact really override my will?

Yes, and it surprises people. Under RUFADAA's priority structure a platform's own online tool sits above estate documents. A legacy contact you designated casually years ago outranks instructions your attorney drafted last month. The theory is that the most recent direct expression of your intent should win. The practical consequence is that platform settings deserve the same periodic review as your estate documents.

What can a Facebook legacy contact actually do?

Less than most people assume. They can pin a post to the memorialised profile, update the profile and cover photos, and request that the account be removed. They cannot read private messages, and they cannot remove past posts or friends. It is a memorialisation tool rather than full access, which is worth knowing before assuming it solves the problem.

What happens to my Apple account when I die?

If you have designated a Legacy Contact, that person can request access to photos, messages, notes and files using a key Apple generates plus a death certificate. Without a Legacy Contact, Apple generally requires a court order, which is slow and expensive. Setting one takes a few minutes in your iPhone settings and is among the highest-value items on this list.

What happens to cryptocurrency if I die without sharing access?

It is permanently lost. There is no bank to call, no password reset, no customer service, and no recovery process. A court order accomplishes nothing because there is no custodian to serve it on. If nobody has the private key or seed phrase, the funds are gone. Anyone holding crypto needs access instructions to exist somewhere their executor can reach.

Should I put my passwords in my will?

No. A will becomes a public record when it goes through probate, so anything written in it stops being private. Use a password manager with an emergency access feature and name a trusted person there. Keep an inventory of where accounts exist alongside your will, but store the actual credentials separately.

How does this affect life insurance?

More than people expect. Paperless statements mean policies now live in an email account the family cannot open rather than a filing cabinet they can. A policy nobody knows about does not get claimed. Autopay from an account that closes at death can put a policy into its grace period at the worst possible time. Adding your carrier, policy number and where statements are delivered to your account inventory is a single line that can save a family weeks.

What if I think a relative had a policy nobody can find?

Run the free searches before assuming it does not exist. The NAIC Life Policy Locator submits a request to participating insurers, and state unclaimed property databases hold proceeds from policies that were never claimed. Both are free. Check the deceased's email and bank statements for premium drafts as well, since a recurring payment to an insurer is often the first solid clue.

Dev Gaymes is a licensed insurance broker, not an attorney. General education about Texas law, not legal advice and not advice about your situation. Statutes, platform policies and terms of service change frequently; descriptions here reflect published sources as of the review date and may not be current. Whether any provision applies to your circumstances, and how your documents should be drafted, are questions for a licensed Texas estate attorney. Nothing here creates an attorney-client relationship. Not an offer of insurance or a quote.

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